Tuesday, October 30, 2018

Tips for First Time Off-Roaders

Lessons Learned on Rocky Gravel Roads


When I first ventured onto those rugged gravel roads, I had no understanding of off-roading. To be honest, I didn’t even grasp the intensity of the experience or what it truly entailed. I simply assumed it was just driving on gravel with a bit of mud sprinkled in for good measure.

Looking back, there are several key techniques I wish I had known during those early trail adventures. These insights could have made my initial experiences not only smoother but also more enjoyable

You can also check out these Off-Road Basics on my YouTube Channel. 


My Jeep climbing up a rock obstacle.
My Jeep climbing a rock obstacle

One of them was simultaneous brake/throttle operation otherwise known as “Two Footed Driving”. There are several off-road conditions that require this type of driving. When climbing rocks or stepped objects using light brake pressure with light throttle will keep the vehicle from jerking or lurching.

This technique should also be used when you need to stop and restart a vehicle on a steep incline. 


My Jeep climbing up a steep rock obstacle with the help of a spotter
Climbing an obstacle with a spotters help

Another important key for a successful off-road trip is controlling your vehicle. Each different terrain has a different effect on the steering which means you always need to keep a firm grip on the steering wheel and maintain a good driving posture. 

Even when your Jeep goes off camber you need to keep your back parallel to the seat. You need to resist the urge to stay “upright” and go “off camber” in your seat with the Jeep. This will help you become familiar with what it feels like and give you a better feel for off-camber situations to help you control your Jeep better. 


My Jeep off camber on the trail
Off camber at Rausch Creek


Airing down your tires is a must to give you a bigger footprint while you are out on the trails or in the sand or mud or snow.  When you do air down you need to be aware of your air pressure while you are off-road. Reduced tire pressures could cause tire unseating and total loss of air pressure. To reduce the risk of tire unseasting while at a reduced tire pressure, reduce your speed and avoid sharp turns or abrupt maneuvers. 



Airing up my tires after a day on the trail.
Airing up my tires

Slowing down in general is a good idea anyway. Take your time to traverse those obstacles and trails to prevent any damage or injury. Taking your time also allows you to enjoy nature and gives you a break from the busy everyday stresses of life.


Additional Tips

  • Never go off-road alone on the trails. 
  • Use a spotter if you don't feel confident going over obstacles.
  • Have a recovery kit and plan. 
  • Use the words passenger and driver instead of left and right when spotting. 

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)


1. What is the most important skill for off-roading?

The most important skill is knowing how to pick the right line while driving over obstacles. Understanding vehicle clearance, traction control, and proper throttle application is also key.

2. What’s the best tire pressure for off-roading?

Lowering your tire pressure to 12-18 PSI helps improve traction by increasing the tire’s surface area. The exact PSI depends on terrain—rocks and sand require lower PSI, while mud may need slightly higher PSI to prevent sidewall damage.

3. What gear should I use for off-roading?

Use 4WD Low (4L) for steep climbs, descents, or rock crawling. Use 4WD High (4H) for mud, sand, or snow where you need momentum. 

4. How do I recover a stuck Jeep safely?

First, assess the situation—never rush. Use recovery boards, a winch, or a tow strap if necessary. Always attach recovery gear to proper recovery points (not the bumper or axle) and avoid jerky movements when pulling a stuck vehicle.

5. Do I need a lift kit for off-roading?

A lift kit helps with ground clearance, but it’s not required for light off-roading. Stock Wranglers handle most trails, but a 2-3” lift and 33-35” tires improve capability for tougher terrain.





Tuesday, October 16, 2018

Live Your Best Life

How to Create a Life You Don’t Need to Escape From

Practical steps, emotional clarity, and a mindset shift toward everyday fulfillment

“Instead of wondering when your next vacation is, maybe you should set up a life you don’t need to escape from.” — Seth Godin

Living your best life isn’t about chasing picture-perfect moments or trying to “have it all.” It’s about intentionally creating a life that aligns with your values, your passions, and your emotional well-being, a life that feels good to wake up to.

As someone who has navigated big transitions like moving across the country, healing emotional wounds, redefining my identity, and rebuilding my happiness, I’ve learned firsthand that your “best life” is not a destination. It’s a daily choice.

Here’s how you can begin building a life you don’t need a vacation from.


Jeep Momma driving topless



What Does It Mean to Live Your Best Life?

Living With Intentional Choices

Living your best life means choosing behaviors, habits, and environments that support your well-being. This includes:

  • nurturing meaningful relationships

  • creating a peaceful home

  • prioritizing hobbies that bring joy

  • doing work that aligns with your values

  • saying no to what drains your energy

These decisions shape your everyday experience far more than occasional “escape moments.”

Focusing on Personal Growth

Your best life grows with you. It’s built through:

  • self-care

  • skill-building

  • reflection

  • celebrating progress (even small wins)

Growth happens when you allow yourself to evolve instead of clinging to past versions of yourself.

Being Open to New Experiences

Living fully means allowing yourself to explore new interests, new environments, and new opportunities. That’s how you discover who you’re becoming not just who you’ve been.

Ultimately, you define what success means and shape your lifestyle around what matters most to you.


Steps to Start Living Your Best Life

1. Declutter Your Stuff

Physical clutter weighs down your energy. Purposefully walk through your home drawer by drawer, closet by closet. And then repeat the process a few months later.

Let go of the excuses like:

  • “One day I might use this.”

  • “I spent too much money to get rid of it.”

Those excuses are rooted in the past or future, not the present.

If you want help starting, check out my guide on How to Simplify Your Life 

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2. Declutter Your Past Emotions

This step takes courage and time.

When I moved to Colorado in 2020, I believed I was stepping into my best life, but I couldn’t understand why I still felt stuck. I was grieving:

  • my old home

  • old friendships

  • my marriage

  • the life I thought I would have

I carried guilt that wasn’t mine, anger over things done to me, and a heaviness that clouded every new beginning.

Forgiving myself and letting go of what wasn’t mine to carry was the only way forward. Finding my faith again put me back on the right path.

For some of us, emotional decluttering takes years. And that’s okay. Healing isn’t linear, but it’s necessary.


3. Declutter Your Time

Your schedule should support your life not control it.

Start by reducing commitments:

  • extra volunteering

  • unnecessary events

  • obligations that drain you

Learning to say no is a life skill. My own unexpected job loss in Maryland forced a reset I didn’t see coming but it became a blessing in disguise.

You can read more about decluttering your life in my book on Amazon: 
How to Declutter Your Life a Step by Step Guide. 



4. Declutter Your Electronic Life

Digital clutter is just as draining as physical clutter.

  • reduce social media time

  • limit the number of platforms you use

  • unsubscribe from unnecessary emails

  • allow yourself to disconnect

Information overload is real, and it can be debilitating. Protect your mental bandwidth.


5. Declutter Your Relationships

This may be the hardest step of all.

Not everyone is meant to go with you into your next season. Negative people drain energy, stunt growth, and block clarity. Removing toxic or unsupportive relationships opens space for healthier connections.

Protect your peace it’s part of living your best life.


Ways to Craft a Life You Don’t Need to Escape From

  • Make relationships a priority.

  • Let go of possessions that don’t support your life.

  • Do meaningful work or shift how you view your job.

  • Guard your time fiercely.

  • Take care of your physical, emotional, and spiritual health.

  • Appreciate the season you’re in, not just the one you want.

  • Accept that trials are part of life not signs of failure.

  • Find small joys every day.

When you clear the clutter (physical, emotional, mental, and relational) you finally create space to recognize the happiness already around you.

It won’t happen overnight. But the slow, steady shift toward intentional living is what eventually brings peace, gratitude, and fulfillment.


FAQ: How to Start Living Your Best Life

1. What does “living your best life” actually mean?

It means creating a lifestyle aligned with your values, passions, and well-being. It’s about making intentional choices that support happiness and mental clarity.

2. Where should I start if my life feels overwhelming?

Start small by decluttering one area your home, your schedule, or your digital space. Small wins build momentum.

3. How do I let go of emotional baggage?

Through time, reflection, forgiveness, and sometimes professional support. Healing is a process, not a switch you flip.

4. How do I stop feeling guilty for prioritizing myself?

Remember that self-care isn’t selfish. When you’re healthier and happier, you show up better for everyone around you.

5. How do I create a life I don’t need a vacation from?

By aligning your daily habits with what truly matters: relationships, meaningful work, inner peace, and joy in the everyday moments.

6. What if I don’t know what makes me happy anymore?

Start experimenting with small new experiences. Fulfillment often grows from curiosity, not certainty.




Thursday, September 20, 2018

Women's Wheeling Day 2018

A Journey of Empowerment and Community


"At the end of the day it's not about what you have or even what you've accomplished. It's about who you've lifted up, who you've made better. It's about what you've given back" ~Denzel Washington 


Rausch Creek Sign Selfie


My first off-road adventure was a transformative experience that ignited a lifelong passion. As I stepped into the world of off-roading, I was immediately embraced by a welcoming community that offered unwavering support and encouragement. This positive environment, surrounded by fellow women enthusiasts, laid the foundation for a love that continues to thrive today.

Trail Videos

👉 Green Trail B

👉 Green Trail S



My group 


The Women's Wheeling Day Event


The annual Women's Wheeling Day event at Rausch Creek Off Road Park has become a cornerstone of the women's off-roading community. What started as a small gathering of eight women in 2013 has blossomed into the largest all-women's off-road wheeling event in the United States, attracting hundreds of participants.



My Journey from Novice to Guide

First-Time Jitters

In 2014, I joined the event as a first-time wheeler, filled with a mix of excitement and apprehension. The supportive atmosphere quickly put me at ease, allowing me to fully embrace the experience.

Giving Back to the Community

As my skills and confidence grew, I found myself transitioning from participant to volunteer. For three consecutive years, I served as a tail gunner, working alongside trail guides to ensure the safety of fellow off-roaders.


Line of Jeeps on trail



Empowering New Off-Roaders

This year, I had the privilege of guiding Group 13, a collection of Jeepers new to off-roading. With only one exception, these women were taking their first steps into the world of off-road adventures.

As we navigated the green trails of Rausch Creek, I witnessed the transformation of nervous beginners into confident off-roaders. Each successfully traversed obstacle brought smiles and cheers, reinforcing their growing skills and passion for the sport.


Jeeps on the trail taking a break from the ride.
Trail break


The Joy of Mentorship


Guiding these first-timers and helping them build confidence has been an incredibly rewarding experience. The gratitude expressed by these women has, in turn, bolstered my own confidence in my ability to lead and inspire others on the trails.

As I reflect on my journey from novice to mentor, I'm filled with excitement for what lies ahead. The prospect of becoming a trail guide fills me with anticipation, and I'm grateful for the opportunity to continue giving back to the community that has given me so much.

The Women's Wheeling Day event at Rausch Creek Off Road Park stands as a testament to the power of community and the importance of creating inclusive spaces in traditionally male-dominated sports. It's an experience that fosters a love for off-roading and builds lasting friendships and empowers women to push their boundaries in a supportive environment.

Jeeps at Rausch Creek Off-Road Park along the Pole Line.
Rausch Creek Pole Line





Thursday, September 6, 2018

Bucket List: Bartending School

When my first son was born I left my television news career to stay at home to raise him (and my youngest son). A decision I will never regret.

However, after many years my boys began to need me less and less which lead me to start looking towards my second career.  I knew getting back in the news field wasn't an option as that flame to my old love diminished. So I was on to other possibilities, but not quite sure what I wanted my second career to be. 

Trying to Figure Out a Second Career 

Getting back into the work force after being a stay at home mom for over 16 years has been extremely difficult. My resume has a big hole, but I filled it with my many, many volunteer jobs. That didn't seem to work as I have only received one interview in over 25 applications.

I have been thinking about my long term plans and what I am passionate about. Contemplating my second career has weighed heavy on my mind as I need to plan for my future as well as have a back up plan. Life is moving way too fast to sit around waiting so I took action.  

Bartending School Trick. 

Bartending School

I took night classes for two weeks. It was an exhausting two weeks working my full time job and taking classes. However, I enjoyed myself and had a blast. 


Bar at school


Taking a Leap 

At first I was very nervous about attending the class for several reasons. Trying anything new and different is always hard. I knew I would be the oldest in the class and was worried about taking tests again. The last test I took was 33 years ago. 

Bar stools


Bad Vibes from Neighborhood Moms

I was very hesitant to even go. I received some not so positive reactions from some neighborhood mom's. A few of my close friends knew it would be perfect for me and offered the encouragement I needed. So I persevered and went to class.


Drinks I made at school

Amazing Experience

I enjoyed myself immensely. I looked forward to pouring and mixing of the drinks each night even though we were using colored water. I went in early everyday to practice using both hands to pour and get quicker. I ended up getting 100% on all my tests and poured 28 random drinks in 10 minutes. 


drinks I made at school

The weekend after I received my certificate I invited my friends over for some taste testing. I needed to test them out myself too since we were only pouring colored water. I will have to say I did a pretty good job. I made some tasty Chocolate Martinis, French Martinis & Cosmopolitans.




I think I will have to give this bartender gig a try especially since I love chatting it up with strangers. I'm also a pretty curious, social person. Who knows this may be my new passion.

Check out my blog post on How to Find Your Passion if you are struggling with what's next in your life. 




 

Tuesday, July 24, 2018

7 Smart Jeep Wrangler Storage Solutions

That Actually Work

Maximize Space, Stay Organized, and Keep Trail Essentials Within Reach

Jeep Wranglers are built for adventure not storage. Between recovery gear, camping equipment, trail tools, and everyday essentials, it doesn’t take long for your Jeep to feel cluttered and chaotic.

After years of off-roading, overlanding, camping, and daily driving my Wrangler, I’ve tested dozens of Jeep storage systems on real trails and road trips. Some looked great online but failed once the trail got rough. These are the Jeep Wrangler storage solutions that actually earned a permanent place in my Jeep.

If you’re looking for practical Jeep organization ideas that improve trail access, maximize cargo space, and keep your gear secure, these are the systems I personally recommend.

Watch My Jeep Storage Setup Videos

Before diving in, check out my YouTube videos where I walk through my real-world Jeep storage setup:


Top 5 Storage Solutions for My Jeep 
UPDATED: My Storage Solutions for my Jeep 



1. The Jeep Attic (Overhead Molle Shelf)

My #1 must-have Jeep storage upgrade.

An overhead molle shelf mounts above the rear seats and instantly creates usable storage space without sacrificing passenger room..

Perfect for storing:

  • Jackets

  • Recovery gloves

  • Soft bags

  • Camp gear

  • Trail snacks

Why This Jeep Storage Solution Works

The “Jeep attic” uses wasted overhead space while keeping lightweight gear easy to grab. It’s one of the smartest ways to increase Jeep Wrangler cargo capacity without adding bulky drawers or boxes.

Recommended Product

Molle Platform Solutions Shelf 


Real-World Experience

I use mine constantly on road trips and trail rides. It keeps the cargo area cleaner and prevents gear from piling up behind the seats.



Molle Platform Solutions Shelf above the rear seats.
Molle Platform Solutions


2. The Jeep Basement (Under-Seat Storage)

One of the best hidden Jeep storage solutions is already built into your Wrangler: the space under the front seats.

Under my driver’s seat I store:

  • Recovery strap

  • Tree saver

  • Gloves

  • Snatch block

  • Soft shackles 

  • D-rings


Why Under-Seat Jeep Storage Works

When someone gets stuck on the trail, you don’t want to unpack your entire Jeep just to reach recovery gear. Keeping essentials under the seat gives you fast access during recoveries.

This setup has saved me time more times than I can count on the trail.


My recovery gear under my front driver's seat.
Under the Front Seats


3. Jeeo Trunk Molle Storage Panels (Over the Inner Fender Wells)

Using the space above your rear inner fenders is one of the best ways to organize a Jeep Wrangler trunk.

Great for storing:

  • Tools

  • First aid kits

  • Soft bags

  • Cleaning supplies 

  • Soft bags

  • Trail accessories

Many molle systems also create hidden bonus storage between the panel and the wheel well.


Why This Jeep Organization System Works

It organizes awkward cargo space while still leaving room for coolers, camping gear, or recovery equipment.

Recommended Product

MorRyde Ammo Can Carrier with Molle Panel 

Related Install Guide

Check out how easy the MorRyde Ammo can Carrier is to install. 


The rear trunk of my Jeep and my MorRyde Ammo can carriers.
MorRyde Ammo Can Carriers


4. Behind-the-Seat Molle Panel Storage

The Blue Ridge Overland Gear Molle Seat Back Panel is one of the most versatile Jeep storage upgrades I’ve used.

It mounts behind the front seats or rear seats and allows you to customize storage for your specific adventures.

Perfect for:

  • Kids’ travel gear

  • Electronics

  • Chargers

  • Small tools

  • Maps

  • Notebooks


Why Seat-Back Storage Works

The modular pocket system lets you organize your Jeep differently for trail rides, road trips, camping weekends, or daily driving.

I especially love this setup for keeping frequently used items easy to reach without cluttering the floorboards.

Recommended Product

Blue Ridge Overland Gear Molle Seat Back Panel


Molle Panel Seat Back holder on the back of the driver's seat.
Molle Seat Back Panel


5. Tailgate Molle Storage Panel

A Jeep tailgate molle panel keeps your most-used off-road tools secure and easy to access.

Ideal for:

  • Air-down tools

  • Tire deflators

  • Gloves

  • First aid

  • Small hand tools


Why Tailgate Storage Works

Everything stays upright, visible, and secure even on rough trails.

It’s also one of the easiest Jeep storage mods for beginners because installation is simple and requires minimal tools.

Related Guide

My Step-by-Step Molle Tailgate Panel Install

Side Note

I’ve since swapped mine for a fold-down tailgate table for camping. It’s one of my favorite camp-cooking upgrades.

Check out my YouTube video:
Molle Fold-down Table Install. 



Tailgate Panel Install


6. Roll-Bar Mounted Storage Bags 

Roll-bar storage bags are one of the most overlooked Jeep Wrangler organization ideas.

They use vertical space that would otherwise go completely unused.

Perfect for storing:

  • Sunscreen

  • Bug spray

  • Headlamps

  • Radios

  • Trail snacks

  • Small recovery accessories

  • First aid items


Why Roll-Bar Bags Work

These bags are accessible whether your doors are on or off, and they prevent small items from rolling around your Jeep.

They work equally well for:

  • Daily driving
  • Trail rides
  • Camping trips
  • Long overland adventures

7. JK Pockets (Hidden Jeep Interior Storage) 

JK Pockets  are one of my favorite inexpensive Jeep mods.

These snap into unused spaces around the interior to create instant extra storage.

Perfect for storing:

  • Sunglasses

  • Phones

  • Chapstick

  • Pocket knives

  • Garage door openers

  • Trail permits

Why JK Pockets Work

Wranglers have a surprising amount of unused interior space. JK Pockets turn those dead areas into functional storage compartments without adding clutter.

For everyday driving, they’re incredibly convenient.

Important Note

Most JK Pockets are designed specifically for Jeep JK models, but similar storage inserts are available for JL and JT Gladiator owners too.


JK Pocket on the drivers door interior of a Jeep Wrangler.
Jeep Wrangler JK Pocket


Frequently Asked Questions About Jeep Wrangler Storage Solutions

What is the best Jeep Wrangler storage solution?

For overall versatility, overhead attic shelves and trunk molle panels provide the best balance of cargo organization and accessibility.

How do I organize recovery gear in my Jeep?

Under-seat storage and trunk molle systems are ideal because they keep recovery gear secure while remaining easy to access during trail recoveries.

Are molle panels worth it in a Jeep Wrangler?

Absolutely. Molle panels are durable, modular, customizable, and perfect for off-road environments.

What storage upgrades are best for daily driving?

JK Pockets and roll-bar bags are excellent for storing phones, sunglasses, chargers, and everyday essentials.

Do these storage ideas work for 2-door Jeeps?

Yes. Overhead attic shelves, seat-back panels, and roll-bar bags work especially well in 2-door Wranglers where cargo space is more limited.

What’s the easiest Jeep storage mod for beginners?

Tailgate molle panels and roll-bar bags are beginner-friendly and usually require very few tools to install.

The Best Jeep Storage Solutions Are the Ones You Actually Use

The best Jeep organization system isn’t about cramming more stuff into your Wrangler. It’s about creating a setup that keeps gear accessible, secure, and trail-ready.

Over the years, these seven Jeep storage solutions have helped me stay organized on:

  • Off-road trails
  • Camping trips
  • Cross-country adventures
  • Everyday driving

And honestly? A well-organized Jeep makes every adventure less stressful and a lot more enjoyable.



Recommended Reading

More Jeep Momma Guides

Written by Tammy “Jeep Momma” Forsyth
Jeep Wrangler owner, off-road enthusiast, and creator sharing trail-tested Jeep tips, DIY mods, camping setups, and real-world adventures.
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Wednesday, June 13, 2018

Krawlin for Cops at Rausch Creek

Embracing Off-Road Charity

In the heart of West Virginia, back in 2014, Brandt Bartman kickstarted what has now become an off-road enthusiast's annual pilgrimage: Krawlin for COPS. What began with a modest turnout of 40 rigs has bloomed into a roaring convoy of over 500 off-roaders converging at Rausch Creek Off Road Park this year.

Jeeps lined up ready for a trail ride.
4x4 Rigs lined up for the trails


A Trail of Charity and Camaraderie

Jeepers and off-roaders, united by their passion for mud and trails, also wear their hearts on their sleeves for charity. It's not just about conquering rugged terrains; it's about rallying for causes. This year, a staggering $42,000 was raised, fueling support for the MD & PA Chapters of Concerns of Police Survivors (C.O.P.S.).

Jeepers taking a break from a trail ride.
Jeepers take a break from the ride


Vendor Night Vibes

Friday night lit up with the buzz of vendors at the park, showcasing everything from essentials to newfound favorites like the 13 Cords grab handles13 Cords grab handles—perfect for those rear passengers.

My 13 Cords grab handles on my Jeep seat.
My 13 Cords Grad handles


Connecting Trails, Connecting People

For me, these events are more than just rubber meeting dirt; they're about forging connections with fellow Jeepers across the Northeast. Imagine finally hitting the trails with longtime Facebook pals or swapping stories with The Bearded Jeeper in person—it's where virtual friendships hit the off-road.

My Jeep Girl friends and myself.
Me and My Jeep Girl Friends


Adventures Unleashed: From Tools to Trails

Equipped with my trusty Warn recovery strap and soft shackle, I stepped up when the moment called. The thrill of rescuing a fellow Jeep from a rocky grip without the winch—now that's the adrenaline that fuels our off-road passions.

My Jeep with a recovery strap on my bumper.
Jeep Momma to the rescue

Jeep Momma helping a Jeeper with recovery.
Jeep Momma helping out a Jeeper


Trails Explored, Memories Made

From the legendary Trail Blue 23 to Trail 14 and Pizza Rock, each trail brought its own challenge and triumph. Even an "easy" trail like Stout morphed into a mud-splattered saga, proving that every outing is a twist of fate and mud.

YouTube Video 👉 Blue 23



Jeep climbing up Pizza Rock


Growing Confidence, Trail by Trail

With every adventure, my confidence as a wheeler and rock crawler deepens. It's not just about conquering trails; it's about mastering the art of off-road camaraderie and self-discovery.

Jeeps lined up on the trail









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